Thereโs a delicate balance to be struck when it comes to the politics of wedding-wear. Overshadow the couple-to-be and youโll draw the ire of the collective. Underwhelm with casualnessโฆ and youโll also draw the ire of the collective.
Hereโs a complete guide on what to wear at a wedding broken down by the dress code.
Black Tie
Few things in life are as straightforward as going to a black tie event. Suit up and have a tie around your neck thatโs black. Tuxedos are preferred.
The standard composition of a black tie wedding guest suit includes the following:
- Dinner jacket (white or black)
- Black dress trousers
- Solid colour dress shirt
- Tie (black, bow>neck)
- Black leather belt
- Dress shoes (leather, avoid squared toes and jester shoes)
OPTIONAL: Cufflinks are highly recommended, waistcoats and pocket squares never go amiss
White Tie
Rare these days, but still within the realm of possibilities. Weโre talking class out the ass here (unlike this sentence I just typed). Keep that posture straight, Benedict Cumberbatch, and remember which cutlery should be used for what courses.
Hereโs our thread prescription:
- Black tailcoat
- Black dress trousers
- Wingtip tuxedo shirt
- Bow tie (white)
- Waistcoat
- Black leather shoes
OPTIONAL: Top hat, pocket watch, monocle
Cocktail
Moving down in the hierarchy of seriousness, we reach the matter of the cocktail dress code. This is black tieโs more relaxed cousin who doesnโt mind throwing back a Corona or two. Cocktail dressing opens the door for more adventurous and fun sartorial options.
An example may include the following:
- Lighter colour suit
- Solid or modestly patterned dress shirt
- Tie (neck or bow)
- Matching belt
- Dress shoes (leather)
OPTIONAL: Pocket squares, cufflinks, waistcoats are a little extra but go for your life (and keep it laidback!)
Tropical
This scenario requires a bit more function to go with the form, given the environment. Relaxed, sure, but relaxed isnโt an excuse not to style out.
Something in the ball-park of the following should be fine:
- Casually tailored suit (less structured, breathable material)
- Similarly, more freedom here, have some fun with colours and patterns, try going with something breathable
- Dress shoes are still a must, make sure itโs cohesive with everything else youโre wearing (leather, always leather) โ hard no to boat shoes
OPTIONAL: Ties and belts, pocket squares and silk scarves
Smart-casual
If cocktail is black tieโs more relaxed cousin, smart-casual is the chill uncle who only wears Birkenstocks and bumps Fleetwood Mac. But that isnโt a license for you to wear Birkenstocks, and you better take those hands off that t-shirt. Note the โsmartโ in smart-casual.
The following is acceptable:
- Any suit but black, lean towards lighter colours but navy is acceptable
- A nice, fitted dress shirt that youโd feel would be appropriate for Sunday church
- You have more freedom with trousers in this situation, make sure theyโre respectable if you deviate from the dress code (eg. nice chinos, avoid jeans)
- Matching belt
- Dress shoes (suede or leather)
OPTIONAL: Ties are not a must but recommended (neck or bow), pocket squares
Shotgun
Attire for this specific occasion is actually extremely similar to the ones as demonstrated above โ itโll all depend on the venue and what the brideโs father is feelingโฆ
Suggested:
- Tactical vest (with plates front and back) in the event the groom does a runner (and daddy-dearest tends to fire off wild buckshots)
Las Vegas
Like the legislation regarding marriage in this loose and lawless city, anything goes regarding ceremonial fashion.
And I mean anything:
- Hawaiian shirts
- Elvis costumes
- Rubber horse masks
- Maybe a bucket (for potential vom-situations)
